Marcus D: Lost Memories

It's really a journey when you begin to unearth the things you thought you have lost or didn't even know exists. The little, subtle things. Sure takes time. But it's worth it. 

thanksgivingbreakftw

I can't remember the last time I get to sit back and relax like today. But then again, I don't remember the last time I appreciate a break as much as I do now. happy thanksgiving y'all. but of course, happy shopping!

Fierce: Faux Fur

The fur effect is elegant, expensive, and, of course, warm. But I think, the ability to wear such a thick layer on your body is confidence. Fierce. The right color and style will make you look ready for a party or even down to earth casual. I personally think faux fur should be used for experimenting with colors. Try turquoise. Or the ombre effect. Better yet, party hard with an animal print. If not, go neutral brown, black, or cream. If a faux fur jacket is too much texture or simply too overwhelming at first, give fur a try through small details, like a hat or a lapel collar.

Either go over the top elegant by pairing faux fur with a body-con sequin dress or with the casual combo of t-shirt and jeans. Personally, I like me a white tee, basic jeans, and blow it away with a thick and colorful fur jacket.

When buying fur, remember to consider the texture and the quality of the texture. In general, remember that fur is an investment piece, where you choose to invest the price tag or the effort to look for a good piece through thrift stores or even vintage boutiques. Texture-wise, make a decision between the feathery  fur or the smooth luxurious fur.

ILL BE BAK

It's been a while but after this last round of midterms...


I just want this week to be over soon.

                                                             [Cramming break: Over]

Alone and Listening

People say you go to college to find who you are, what your purpose is, and what you want to do. But sometimes I really wonder if that could be absolutely true when you are constantly surrounded by your peers--the interaction is so constant and endless that there's a buzzing in the back of my mind, hindering me from hearing my thoughts and leaving me feeling hollow at the end of the day. I need to sit down and lay my head back to the ceiling, the starkly white ceiling of the century old dorm room, and think. And remember. And plan. And analyze. I really need a break.

Reality Sets In

College started exactly three weeks for me and already I am beginning to feel the strain of disappointments setting in. So many wrong decisions over entertainment and school, juxtaposed by high expectation and confidence that I will do well. Unfortunately, you can't have your cake and eat it too. The grades stare at me in the face, reminding me of how poor my performance was. I slept too late, study too little, and have too much fun. Now is when I settle into a mega-mode of anti-social and nerdy me. I'm trying to look at the positive things around me, the fact that it has only been three weeks and not five or six weeks in that I realize how screwed I am. Also, I guess mistakes do make my journey much more interesting and memorable. It reminds me to remember my philosophy that if you try hard and dedicate, anything can and will be accomplished. Plus, there's the pattern to the good and the bad--maybe my era of bad events will end and the good will commence soon. So my goal is to start working hard and hopefully my grades will be pulled up to the desired point: above an A-. NO PRESSURE.

Five Reasons to Thrift Thrift Thrift!

Whether it is the smell, the idea of second hand, or the fellow shoppers, people not acquainted with thrift stores will find a reason or two to express their repulsion. Quite frankly, I do not plan to change the attitude of these consumers (more treasures left for me!), but in the defense of thrift shopping, here are five reasons why YOU should give it a try.

One word: Economical.

Two words: Renew and recycle.

More importantly, most thrift stores stand behind a meaningful cause, giving their funds to charities that support others in need. For example, Goodwill is a nonprofit organization known for providing training or jobs for the unemployed that are at a disadvantage (disability, lack of education, financial challenges). And the name Goodwill is always dear to me because it is perhaps one of my favorite thrift store chains. It feels good to know that your purchase will be processed to something that serves a charitable purpose instead of feeding the black hole of mere profits.

To be honest, one of the main reasons for my frequent thrifting is creativity. The mass and chaotic arrangement of a thrift store compares to a retail or even retail store opens a new creative pathway to selecting your clothes. Customers are not constantly bombarded by the displayed clothes strategically hung on the mannequin or the hanger in stores such as Goodwill or Salvation Army. It's not about following trends and learn from others what is in, but what inspires you and defines your style that you picked a certain piece of clothing article.

But of course, at the end of the day, I love thrift stores for its one-of-a-kind finds. Embrace uniqueness.